If you have just broken up with a lover and want your ex back, we all obviously know how you are feeling. It feels so bad some people even have suicidal thoughts when going through a bad breakup. I am going to scratch the surface on getting your ex back with 3 tips that have been very useful to me and many others.
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1. Know why you want your ex back.
Pay attention here. Do you want your ex back just because you feel awful not having a partner around, because everything reminds you of him/her, or because you think that you will be happy? These are not legit reasons to want your ex back. Now legit reasons to really want your ex back can be because you both are truly in love, you both treat each other well and compliment each other well, and you both just had some kind of dispute that's not worth losing your relationship over. A lot of the time a person just wants their ex back because they feel like crap not having a significant other when they are used to having one. This is not a reason to fight for your ex back, this is a reason to find a new lover and trust me that new lover is out there.
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2. Be Tough Even If Your Not.
I'm sure you have all heard the saying that people want what they can't have. That is a fact, it is human nature to want what you can't have. So knowing this why would somebody sit there and beg someone for hours to be with them and to take them back? It is only natural for the other person to be turned off by this action and to go chase someone they do not know if they can have or not. If an ex breaks up with you just agree with them and tell them you think they are right and that it is probably best for both of you. This greatly increases the chance of getting back with your ex and actually puts you in a win/win situation. Remember human nature, your lover will realize within days that they don't have you anymore and will most likely call, text, email or find some way of contacting you to talk about things again. I know what you're thinking...but what if they don't. If they don't come back to you than maybe it is for a reason. You might be better off finding someone else who will treat you much better and maybe that person just wasn't right for you. This might be tough in the short term but in the long term it will truly pay off.
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3. Get your mind right and start thinking the right thoughts.
This is an attraction based universe. That means that what you think about you bring about. So if you are driving your car and you're thinking "I don't want to hit red lights, I don't want to hit red lights, I don't want to hit red lights." What happens 99% of the time? You hit every stinkin red light there is. That is the way it works. So when you are constantly thinking about how miserable you are and how bad everything is and how it is never going to get better than guess what? It wont. Your thought process should go like this. I know I am in a tough situation but I will overcome it. If my ex is the right person for me they will fid their way back into my life and I will not try to force it. Although this feels terrible this could possibly be the best thing for me and only the best thing for me will happen.
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